Welcome

I am here to help!

Hi! I’m Debra Shade, Board Certified Clinical Sexologist and Master Sexpert. Thirteen years ago, I wrote an intense erotica book, and the reactions I received sparked my journey into modern sex education. I realized the need for open discussions on pleasure and completing the sexual response cycle.

Despite some media becoming more relaxed with “adult content,” conversations about sex for pleasure are still limited. Over the past 13 years, I’ve studied physical intimacy, discovering how climax benefits the body by lowering blood pressure, reducing cortisol, acting as an antidepressant, relieving pain, and improving sleep.

The Truth About Sex for Pleasure

I’ve developed a solution to break down generational barriers that hinder pleasure and impact overall wellness. Let’s talk about erogenous zones, multiple climaxes, and how to build a routine that maximizes benefits.

I offer individual consultations, couples therapy, and host seminars and workshops on the art of orgasm, as well as PEET (Pleasure Education and Empowerment Training) programming to guide you in mastering physical intimacy and embracing pleasure at a deeper level. Join me for my Brown Bag Workshop every Wednesday at noon to explore modern truths about physical intimacy. Register here.Counseling is for you if:

  1. Still in love with your partner but knowing it can’t go on like it is.
  2. Misunderstanding or being misunderstood.
  3. Deeply frustrated with no way out.
  4. Interested in creating a better future together.
  5. Genuinely want to connect with your partner but just don’t know how.
  6. Hoping to better understand the relationship you currently have.
  7. Eager to rekindle the passion you once had.
  8. In the same arguments over and over again.
  9. Without clarity but willing to discover what you want from the relationship & each other.
  10. Wanting to understand your relationship patterns and the effect they have.
  11. Keen to invest in strategies that bring more connection, intimacy, and pleasure.
  12. Committed to working through blockages and problems including infidelity.