Shades Oasis – Ohio’s First Pleasure Education Healing Center!
I’m excited to announce the reclassification of Shades Oasis! Now Ohio’s first and only Pleasure Education Healing Center! As a Clinical Sexologist, I specialize in helping individuals seek pleasure and healing, especially for those who are navigating the sexual complexities of reclaiming their pleasure after violation or perhaps the first time. This work is vital for closing the gap full circle in mental health care.
Shades Oasis is a space where people can reclaim their pleasure, heal from trauma, and engage in transformational education and experiences that foster connection, intimacy, and well-being.
At Shades Oasis, we offer
- Virtual and in-person sessions tailored to individual needs with Debra Shade, ACS, ABS.
- Workshops & Classes on topics of sexual wellness and pleasure.
- Support groups for all humans seeking a deeper understanding of their sexual health and ‘normalcy’.
- Movement sessions and retreats that focus on cultivating self-awareness and emotional intimacy.
- Debra helps individuals explore the science behind 12 vulva and 3 penile releases which are developed through an intricate understanding of 52 erogenous zones, these practices can help participants fully complete the sexual response cycle—essential for sustaining consensual healthy sexual experiences and emotional healing.
Health Benefits of Sexual Wellness Education and Pleasure
Stress reduction such as an antidepressant is a benefit of completing the sexual response cycle. Engaging in pleasurable experiences can lower cortisol levels, reducing stress and anxiety.
Improved Mental Health: Fostering healthy sexual expression is linked to better mood, increased confidence, and well-being. It behaves as an antihistamine amazingly. Which is blocking the effects of a substance called histamine in your body. Histamine is normally released when your body detects something harmful, such as an infection. It causes blood vessels to expand and the skin to swell, which helps protect the body.
Physical Health: Sexual pleasure can enhance circulation, improve sleep, and release endorphins—benefiting overall physical health. This includes heart health.
Enhanced Relationships: Understanding your own body and communicating desires can deepen intimacy and build stronger, more connected relationships.
Trauma Healing: For individuals who have experienced violation, reclaiming pleasure through education can be a powerful step in healing and regaining agency.
Help us spread the word that Ohio has its first pleasure education and healing center – Shades Oasis, we believe that education, exploration, and self-love are key to a healthier, more fulfilling life. Let’s reimagine pleasure together. Join us in sharing this exciting venture, and together, let’s open doors to a world of discovery and liberation in sexual wellness and barrier blockers to healthy, consensual intimate relationships.
Our nonprofit, Har
mony Bridge, is here to provide a short-term care program that we can deliver year-roundfor individuals and groups.
With gratitude and excitement,
Debra Shade
Founder of Shades Oasis
ASN Lifestyle Magazine Features Debra Shade
Book with me!
Have you wanted to improve your “O”? Book me for your birthday, bachelorette and bachelors parties. For workshops, seminars and expos. I offer individual and couples coaching to improve intimacy and sensual pleasure.
I am here to help!
Hi! My name is Debra Shade, Board Certified Clinical Sexologist and Master Sexpert. 12 years ago I wrote a book of intense erotica and the reactions I got from folks at signings led me on a very pleasurable quest. In no time, I realized we needed modern day sex education. We need to discuss pleasure and benefits of completing the sexual response cycle.
While parts of media have become loose with their censorship of anything they consider, “adult content”, we are still not talking about sex for pleasure. For the last 12 years, I have been on my journey to learn as much as I could on physical intimacy. Climax produces hormones that benefit the body by lowering blood pressure and cortisol, acts as an antidepressant and antihistamine. With body contractions and tension muscles relaxing it relieves pain and helps you sleep better.
The Truth About Sex For Pleasure
I have found the solution for correcting generational conversations causing barriers to your pleasure. Holding your whole body wellness hostage. It’s time we talk about it so that we can have the best experiences possible. Let me share the erogenous zones that create one or two climaxes when stimulated with you. Help you to create a regimen that will give you various benefits.
I consult individuals and couples as well as host seminars and workshops on the art of orgasm. I host a Brown Bag Workshop at noon on Wednesday to pass on modern day truths about physical intimacy.https://www.eventbrite.com/o/shades-oasis-43385717903.
Counseling is for you if:
- Still in love with your partner but knowing it can’t go on like it is.
- Misunderstanding or being misunderstood.
- Deeply frustrated with no way out.
- Interested in creating a better future together.
- Genuinely want to connect with your partner but just don’t know how.
- Hoping to better understand the relationship you currently have.
- Eager to rekindle the passion you once had.
- In the same arguments over and over again.
- Without clarity but willing to discover what you want from the relationship & each other.
- Wanting to understand your relationship patterns and the effect they have.
- Keen to invest in strategies that bring more connection, intimacy, and pleasure.
- Committed to working through blockages and problems including infidelity.
