Biography
Clinical Sexologist and Master Sexpert, with varied accomplishments as a sex educator. She runs a private practice working with couples and individuals of all genders and orientations in overcoming barriers to completing the sexual response cycle. Orgasm, pleasure, and wellness have been her underlying passions for the last thirteen years. She is IMBd accredited for the alternative TV series "Web Cam Diaries" presently in pre-production for After Hours HD on Roku TV. Author of The Sex Journals series: ‘Maybe She is Right’", ‘Hot Sex on a Platter’, and ‘Queen B’, she possesses a remarkable method of putting erotic words together that imagination is not necessary. The series is about a bisexual sex fiend who uses orgasm as one would a drug. To escape, to rest in pleasure, and to own her pleasure in retaliation for a childhood of sexual abuse. Debra writes of a descriptive tryst that has been listed as literary porn.
Shade is the author of Climax: The Power of Great Sex. A guide to connecting with intimate relationships, how to create an orgasm, and methods that empower readers with tools and techniques to ensure their best sexual experience. Written for pleasure seekers, Climax is full of tips and techniques to educate readers on the benefits of orgasms. She is published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine and Research for her concept of the whole-body benefits we receive from completing the sexual response cycle. (Debra Shade (2023) Completing the Sexual Response Cycle Three Times a Week Can Improve Whole Body Health. Journal of Sexual Medicine & Research. SRC/JSMR-116. DOI: doi.org/10.47363/JSMR/2023(2)110)
Debra uses her ability to tell a tale and her unmistakable charisma in her educational approach, she transcends the convention of "workshop" and provides each participant with an encounter. Her workshops are raw and full of actual usable information on creating pleasure in so many methods. She teaches twelve vulva orgasms and three penile orgasms that can be used to benefit a person's whole body. Her knowledge of the perfect hormonal storm that is created with arousal and through release is game-changing for so many of her members and the people around them. The information is transferrable to any orgasmic person, and this is the foundation of her continued mission to provide a safe space of exploration and healing.
Shade delivers workshops and seminars on modern-day sex education in various settings. Debra is the author of over 150 intimate course topics available online and in person. She is a keynote speaker and travels the country delivering seminars and workshops to audiences of all sizes. She currently hosts a monthly podcast entitled 'Sexy Talk and Pleasure’ an engaging free online learning experience. She is the host of 'Adult Recess’ which includes sensual performances from fire spinners/eaters, burlesque, belly, and magic shows. There is also a workshop, always a workshop dancing through her curated events. 'BLISS is a three-day intense submissive experience during Halloween weekend. Halloween is her favorite holiday and BLISS is her present to all submissives who have been naughty during the year.
She ensures dedicated time to communities that are often lost in the room of “pleasure normalcy. She hosts an event for vulva owners who love vulvas and transgender individuals who need a place to live inside out. Her Sip & Paint Nudes are highly favored and each month there is a different model of all shapes and sizes. Models who volunteer themselves, making the experience intimate, light, and special. Another favorite monthly is her eight-course cannabis dinner she calls 'High Rise. Monthly ticket holders get to enjoy eight dishes that are infused with cannabis as she delivers a workshop on strains that help and hinder pleasure.
All curated experiences in which she delivers pleasure topics to members of her whole-body wellness center Shades Oasis. Debra is called upon to provide experiences for small sessions and events from organizations, and health centers. She is a provider for Jiva Med Spa, a sexual wellness medical center providing red light therapy, hormone replacement therapy, the O and P shots, and much more. She has taught at expos, conventions, and festivals, such as the ‘National Sexual Health Conference’ 'The Ohio Lesbian Festival 'TRAUMA' 'Lion's Den 'SEXAPLOZZA' 'Columbus Pride’, and she travels the 'eXXXotica tours 'Columbus Psych Fest' and ‘ComFest’ where she shocks the audience with how calmly and engaging, she talks about pain-free anal or the pleasure in the cul de sac. She is a current columnist for Sexpert.com and ASN Lifestyle Magazine. Publishing a monthly column mostly regarding mastering your orgasm. She is a current active member of AASECT, the defining agency for accreditation in the field of sex education and sexual health. The American Sexology Board Certified her as a Clinical Sexologist and she has additional certification as a Master Sexpert.
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